In the United States a woman can be paid for her time and effort to donate her eggs or to carry someone else’s baby. That is not so in most parts of the world, where paying a woman for her work (and make no mistake about it, it’s work) is illegal. That is exactly what Mellany and Simon have had to do as they live in New Zealand, where paying a woman for her services to donate her eggs is illegal. As a result, there are very few women who will donate for altruistic reasons, so many couples are forced to go abroad.