{"id":633,"date":"2015-07-02T09:00:38","date_gmt":"2015-07-02T09:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/surrogacy-lawyer.com\/?p=633"},"modified":"2021-12-29T21:25:40","modified_gmt":"2021-12-29T21:25:40","slug":"surrogate-mother-objects-to-intended-parents-being-gay-fathers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/surrogacy-lawyer.com\/zh\/surrogate-mother-objects-to-intended-parents-being-gay-fathers\/","title":{"rendered":"Surrogate Mother Objects To Intended Parents Being Gay Fathers"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Gordon \u201cBud\u201d Lake and his husband are unable to take their daughter, Carmen Santos Lake, third from left, out of Thailand because her surrogate mother objects to the fact she will be raised by a same-sex couple. (Photo courtesy of Gordon Lake)<\/p><\/div>\n

Gordon \u201cBud\u201d Lake and his husband are the proud fathers of a baby girl. But this situation is not as simple or happy as just that.<\/p>\n

The men want to bring their baby back to their Florida home, but they are stuck in Thailand because the appropriate parental paperwork and USA passport have not been issued.<\/p>\n

It appears the root of this issue is their sexual orientation.<\/p>\n

The couple\u2019s daughter, Carmen Santos Lake, was born at a Bangkok hospital. They also have a son who was born via surrogate from India but did not encounter this problem when he was born.<\/p>\n

Michael Laves, a reporter for the Blade writes<\/a>, \u201cLake said the surrogate \u2014 who is not the baby\u2019s biological mother \u2014 agreed to list him on their daughter\u2019s birth certificate as her father. He told the Blade the surrogate also signed a consent form that allowed him to take her from the hospital. \u2018All seemed to be going well,\u2019\u201d wrote Lake in an email to the Blade earlier this month. Lake continued, \u201cCarmen was beautiful, happy and healthy. The surrogate was fully cooperating and I was looking forward to heading home with my family in a matter of weeks, once all the remaining paperwork was finalized.\u201d<\/p>\n

Lake told the media publication that he suspected there was a problem a few weeks after his daughter was born. The surrogate told the couple\u2019s attorney that she was fine helping an \u201cordinary couple\u201d not able to have a family. The term, \u201cordinary,\u201d referred to a traditional husband and wife and not gay.<\/p>\n

\u201cI don\u2019t know if the agency told her beforehand,\u201d Lake said.<\/p>\n

This of course triggers the question of whether or not full disclosure was provided to the surrogate prior to the embryo transfer. If this occurred, would a problem such as this be happening at this very moment?<\/p>\n

Lake went on to tell the publication that the surrogate is represented by the Women\u2019s Lawyers Association of Thailand.\u00a0 The surrogate did not appear for a scheduled meeting at the U.S. Embassy in Bangkok where she was supposed to furnish the proper documentation, including an American passport, so Lake could leave the country with the baby.<\/p>\n

In the eyes of Thai law, currently Lake has no parental rights to his baby.<\/p>\n

Laves reports, \u201cA new law that outlaws surrogacy for foreigners in Thailand is scheduled to take effect on July 31. Current Thai law stipulates that the surrogate has full legal and parental rights to Lake\u2019s daughter, even though he is listed on her birth certificate as her father.\u201d<\/p>\n

Lake has already undergone a DNA test for paternity.<\/p>\n

He told the Blade, \u201cI still don\u2019t have any parental rights, according to Thai law.\u201d<\/p>\n

The U.S. Embassy in Bangkok has issued a Consular Report of Birth Abroad or CRBA, Laves reports, which certifies a child who is born overseas, is an American citizen at the time of their birth. When \u201cconsent\u201d is provided from both parents, which is listed on the baby\u2019s birth certificate, Thai administrators will consider issuing a U.S. passport.<\/p>\n

While these husbands are experiencing a nightmarish event and want to come home, it\u2019s important to note that people seek countries like Thailand, India, Nepal and Mexico for surrogacy because of lower expenses. Conversely, operating costs for these surrogate agencies are cut-rate.<\/p>\n

The foundation of doing business with countries such as these remains unstable.<\/p>\n

In the United States, intended parent(s) who work with agencies in a surrogate-friendly state experience radically different situations than what Lake is experiencing in Thailand. The surrogate would not be able to deny parentage because there are laws to protect the parents and the surrogates.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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